11 February 2012, 8:34 am
My wife and I have been together for almost 9 years married almost 3 she has been bulimic since she was 14 and almost 27 now we tried in patient twice and counseling. She gets depressed and her eating disorder spirals out of control, out of the last 3 years she has missed 18 months of work. I have had to sell my favorite toys (truck, 4 wheeler, boat) to make ends meet with the loss of her income. we have two kids together six and one. I do truely love her but her issues have got me to my breaking point. I have had her admitted to the mental hospital twice, eating disorder treatment facility, drug treatment facilty. I feel like a faliure cause i cant fix her, I know it sounds stupid but I thought with enough support and different approaches I might be able to help her overcome this, but I havent gotten anywhere. Sometimes she is the sweetest girl Ive ever met and like a light switch she turns into a super bitch. Im out of ideas and patients. My kids deserve better than what both of us have been giving them. I dont want to leave her but my temper has been worn thinner and thinner. I have began breaking things and doors (never with kids present) because she knows exactly how to push my buttons and then keeps pushing them untill i react. I try walking away but she follows baiting me into a fight. For the record I have never been close to touching her. Our sex life is almost none existant I would blame it on the medicine shes on but we were not having much before the medicine and when we do there is no feeling at all on her end. I dont know if Im looking for validation for leaving or what maybe new approaches... Read More »
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